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TopicWomen do like assholes
Sad_Face
06/15/21 11:21:40 PM
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CHM_Punk posted...
I remember an episode of the Romeo Show on Nickelodeon on this subject. Women have it ingrained in them to nurture and the appeal of the bad boy is to help change them and make them a better person that has their shit together. Unfortunately, that fantasy is a lot more difficult for the ladies to achieve when the dude is a grown legal adult continually being a dumbass vs. a naive little kid with troubles in middle school.

This is incorrect. Girls are attracted to power. A bad boy in the eyes of younger girls have control over their lives and have the power to do what they want. A girl being able to land a guy and get him to commit to her will see herself as higher value in relation to her peers for accomplishing this.

The maternal instinct and nurturing nature kicks in when they see a kid or man in tears or emotionally vulnerable. That's when they come in to console them. Unfortunately for men, this comes at a price as then girls will see those guys as less attractive. This is where the old adages of "never show your emotions around girls" and "Real men don't cry" come from. It's not out of toxic masculinity but cultural rules to protect your relationship.

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