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Topic | I can't stop feeling guilty about my husband being an older dad |
Cleo_II 03/14/21 1:22:38 PM #27: | DravenRainrix posted... He was born in 1933.Im sorry your relationship with him was so strained. I can see my husband having a hard time with the generation gap as well. But I do see him making comments about how he needs to learn to be better about it for her sake. I think they will butt heads for sure but I can see him at least making an effort. He also talks a lot about how he wants her to have a healthy self esteem and realizes his role in that. So I hope he can adjust. Hes not the best with empathy and he knows it. Thank you for sharing. g980 posted... My dad was in his mid 40s when i was bornThats awesome, glad you had a good relationship with him. He does need to take better care of himself. He stopped doing annual physicals and wont get his vision tested. His excuse for the past year has been covid. But he wasnt doing it before either. I plan on being that naggy wife once things are better with the pandemic and force him to go lol [LFAQs-redacted-quote] Thank you for sharing your experience. That does make me feel a lot better ThePieReborn posted... I wasn't very physical growing up (as indicated by my being on this site), so I never felt that his age impacted his being dad. Honestly growing up isn't the problem; It's him being 72 right now with his eyesight going (macular degeneration) that's giving me issues. I'm... not in the soundest state of mind in present times, and I can barely take care of myself mentally without losing my shit over the fact that the illusion of my parents being there is going to shatter within the near future.Im sorry to hear that about your dad :( *hugs* ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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