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Topic	I can't stop feeling guilty about my husband being an older dad
Cleo_II 03/14/21 12:44:17 PM #12:	MFBKBass5 posted... Why does that make you feel awful? As long as he wanted kids isnt that all that actually matters? Sounds like youre just way too into your head. Thank you. I probably am. I think its all the hormones. We were talking about her future and it just suddenly hit me how we will be at completely different life stages and it just terrified me. Hes beyond excited about her. WingsOfGood posted... Did you marry him in your 20s and refuse his request for kids? If not then don't feel guilty. Married at 28, started trying at 30 but it took us years due to fertility issues on my end. Sometimes I feel guilty about that. Like if only my body worked right, if only we tried sooner, if only I pushed for better care initially, etc. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:951699552] in I can't st... [t:79348275]...</cite> <quote>MFBKBass5 posted... </cite> <quote>Why does that make you feel awful? As long as he wanted kids isnt that all that actually matters? Sounds like youre just way too into your head.</quote>Thank you. I probably am. I think its all the hormones. We were talking about her future and it just suddenly hit me how we will be at completely different life stages and it just terrified me. Hes beyond excited about her. WingsOfGood posted... </cite> <quote>Did you marry him in your 20s and refuse his request for kids? If not then don't feel guilty.</quote>Married at 28, started trying at 30 but it took us years due to fertility issues on my end. Sometimes I feel guilty about that. Like if only my body worked right, if only we tried sooner, if only I pushed for better care initially, etc. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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