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I have. Was friends with one and he got me very into drugs. I didn't trust him but after I'd get high on MDMA with him and things which I'd never done before I felt a strong connection. He'd lovebomb me and things and tell me all this sweet things. He'd make up these constant things that were very clearly fake. Like he started playing chess then hit out with like "Oh yeah I used to play chess professionally" and stuff like that... even though he was literally just average?

Anyway he'd come out with things like that that would just raise eyebrows but I didn't think anything too much of it. I felt kind of sorry for him, he would talk about his girlfriend in this really grand way and accuse her of doing rly bad stuff.

I trusted him a lot until one night when he was staying over with me and I woke up to him groping me and shit and dry humping my ass. I freaked out because I've been sexually assaulted in the past which I had confided him about before and I ended up sleeping with him as a way to try get control over the situation. As soon as he came he immediately went and put his clothes on like "Oh just so you know i dont want a relationship with you", ok then buddy

Anyway I did bring up what he did and he seemed like he wanted to be accountable at first and apologized, but then he just really started hurling abuse at me constantly and demeaning me in lots of ways and basically put no effort into the friendship after that and at one point even made jokes about me being raped in prison and things.

I eventually got the guts to stand up for myself and basically told him "Hey, it took a lot for me to forgive you for this and I feel like youre not putting in effort into the friendship and you're acting hurtfully" and then from there he basically went on a weird bizarre 4chan type tirade, saying a bunch of anti semetic stuff and how he's highly intelligent unlike me whos been brainwashed by "the jews" or whatever... like what?? And basically just ignored any of my valid points and laughed at me and stuff and then began denying what he did, in spite of the fact he admitted to it before.

Anyway I told him to go fuck himself and stuff and cut him out of my life.

A few months later his (then ex) girlfriend messages me and asks me about why I stopped being friends with him and I told her everything and she was horrified. She also told me a lot of the awful stuff he'd do in the relationship, like cheating, giving her chlamydia and not telling her coz she assumed they were monogamous (he lied to me and told me he was poly), told her he apparently murdered his granddad, had been accused of sexual assault in the past and the most horrific thing i heard is that he used to go on 4chan to look at gifs of people killing themselves and other horrible stuff. She'd beg him to stop looking at that stuff on the screen and he'd be laughing at it and saying "Why?"

It scares the shit out of me that someone like that exists, and that I was so close to him at one point and a part of me feels like I was groomed in a way, like he used drugs to break down my defenses or something. His ex feels the same way too.

I occasionally look up his username on reddit and he pretends to be this progressive male feminist as well