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Hexenherz posted...

Lol that's scary. We've all been there I guess, just forget different things.

If I had to guess I'd say his military experience probably made him the communicator he is. I know I don't like to complain much... Outside of on gamefaqs... Because I don't want to place more stress on my wife, and I don't complain much at work because years of experience have taught me that no one's listening anyway.

And I know I hate when my wife complains about things and I try to give her a solution or talk her down and she gets even madder but that's my way of trying to fix things.

Since he's not pregnant and doesn't know how that feels he probably has a hard time internalizing what it really means and how big of a burden it really is.

Yoy mentioned last time how he didn't make lunch for a long time, it seems really simple that you are hungry and need food honestly, but for someone who doesn't eat that much or frequently it's way too easy to not understand how the other person feels.

Hopefully the communication improves and everything keeps getting better from here on out.

Yeah hes the type not to complain about anything. Even when hes super sick, he doesnt ask me for anything. Ill still take care of him, but if I didnt then he would be making his own soup, etc. Hes not the kind of guy that turns into a baby when hes sick like Ive heard other women complain about. He rarely gets hungry either. Hes used to going without and that comes from both his childhood and the military. Its why Ive been patient with him throughout the years

And he does the same thing where he tries to problem solve everything when sometimes I just want to vent without a fix. I just want him to listen. Ive just learned to turn to my sister or female friends instead.