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| Lost_All_Senses 03/04/21 1:23:05 PM #11: | inTaCtfuL posted... Possibly, people have said that about me in the past lol. Idk, I know this is going to sound silly but anytime I ever thought highly of myself, there's always something afterwards that basically puts me into place and I'll always have a shitty feeling of "why did I think that about myself?" that seems hard for me to get rid of. I just feel like it's overall easier for my mental health if I thought modesty tbh Tbh, it's easier to navigate around people when you sell yourself short and exceed expectations. Instead of talk a big gane just to disappoint. The former is only necessary if you have a job where you need to stick out. If that's the case, you got plenty of examples where talking yourself up but never delivering still got the person super far lol. I can't do it. Feels so disingenuous to big myself up. You might just be waiting for that thing to humble you when you talk yourself up tho. Then any little thing becomes highlighted when it comes up. --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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