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TopicMum says why shes teaching her five daughters there's no such thing as virginity
ReturnOfFa
03/03/21 6:37:57 PM
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deoxxys posted...
Not sure if joking or not, strangely enough I recently tried to get to know and date a hardcore feminist but it was kind of bothering to see that among her blm art, she had a piece declaring "men aint shit" which kind of came off as misandrist. I personally would never even say "women arent shit" let alone get an art piece drawn for it -___-

Nope, not joking! Well, a lot of people do make things quite reductionist. That being said, I've met enough men that have screwed me around, been dishonest, cowards etc that I can get behind a statement like "Men ain't shit!", even though I am one. I'm not personally offended by it. Obviously that 'hardcore feminist' wasn't offended by the fact that you were a man, even though she had created that art! In that sense, I -personally of course-, would not be that upset by it.

I think if you're going to say things like 'women ain't shit!', well, you can! I just think that women have been historically treated quite a lot worse than men, and I have personally seen a lot of that still in the workplace. Of course, I have also been mistreated by women, so that's why I'm fine with some creative jokes that dunk on women.

People are probably going to not like it if all you say is negative things about women, in simple terms. If you have creative jokes about women, but are also nice to women 99% of the time, people will probably be fine with you, except the most extreme folks.

I just personally don't find a sign that says 'men ain't shit' has much of an effect on my life. Even if it's someone in my life that made it. Maybe they just needed to express that because they had been mistreated by a majority of men in their life. Did you ask her about the men in her life? I would maybe just be patient if dating someone like that - I'm sure they would tell you about such things in time.

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