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TopicHave you ever slowly grown to dislike a close friend of yours? What happened?
TommyG663513
02/14/21 7:22:19 AM
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Yeah my best friend was the first person I did gay stuff with. We were 16 at the time and super drunk. We both felt pretty ashamed of it and agreed to never talk of it again. We still remained friends and stuff though.

Fast forward to age 21 and we did gay stuff together again. By this point I was comfortable calling myself bisexual and he was starting to somewhat accept that he was gay. We got drunk and fooled around again. Then he completely went no contact on me for over a year. Just never responded the handful of times I tried. Then he hit me up out of the blue. We hung out and partied together on Halloween. Had a great time.

Then we loosely hung out for years. We would usually go out at night to various gay bars together. We would kind of separate to flirt with random dudes then check up on each other throughout the night. It was a good time.

Then he kept getting weirder about his sexuality. I mean, he just cut me off again and that was kind of it for me. I ran into a friend of a friend who told me that he had moved to San Francisco. That hit me hard, because I hadn't spoken to him in 6 months then someone that I never felt he was close to told me that he moved halfway across the country. Felt like a huge betrayal.

Another 6 months later and he was in town and hit me up. I said sure and we hung out. It became clear throughout us hanging out that he was desperate to get laid that night and was trying hard on grindr. I remember him driving me to go pick up a pizza then as he's dropping me off he made a comment like we should hook up again like the old days. Considering this guy had abandoned me multiple times before and was clearly looking at sex with me as a last resort I wasn't the slightest bit interested. I basically just responded with a lot of annoyance that he would suggest that and expressed a lot of desire to go inside and eat my pizza. Then he tried to play off propositioning me for sex as just a joke.

That was the last time I ever saw him.

Was still friends on FB and I'd check up on him every now and then, but thinking about him mostly just upset me. One day I just deleted his phone number and blocked him on FB. I can't imagine ever wanting to see him again.

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