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Tryhaptaward posted...

What happened to your other account?

I kept coming back here after saying I wouldn't so I thought it would be best to close it for the time being. No loss, I would say.

WrestlinFan posted...

Fucking Jesus Christ dude get out as soon as you can and find a good therapist.

I had a good therapist but we ended our sessions back in April. Partly due to COVID taking off and he thought I made significant progress. Even he recommended I move out but I just didn't have the money to do so. Now, I do.

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I agree, Staying in this situation is holding me back at this point and if I truly want to become better, removing myself from this situation is the best option. I will admit that I'm nervous since this would be a first for me.

FrankJaegr posted...

This is probably the best course of action + some therapy if you can afford it. Sorry man. Youll definitely feel better once you move out - maybe even some reconciliation can even happen way further down the line after you establish yourself in however you wanna go through life years later.

but for now its best to think of moving my forward and striving to get help by talking more about these things - just get yourself outta there and just start living to ground yourself again

I agree. I also would like to reconcile eventually. My brother just had a child with a woman of a different race and while some people in my family have mixed feelings about it, I want to be very supportive of this child as he grows up. Most importantly, I want to make sure what happened to me doesn't happen to him.

_MorningStar posted...

.....wut

Yeah so, in my family, we aren't allowed to eat lunch on a Sunday. From what I was told, it's wrong and even evil to do so. I cannot explain the logic behind this myself.

harley2280 posted...

Fuck that. You didn't ask to get brought into this world. Your purpose is your own. You don't have an obligation to take care of them.

Right, and I wouldn't have minded helping my parents out every now and then once they're much older and have a hard time taking care of themselves. When the expectation is that I have be successful with a good job so that they can be taken care of, it doesn't sit right.