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Look guys. Given the amount of time I've spent butting heads with Jen over the years, you'd be hard pressed to make an argument that I'm ever going to White Knight for her.

To be blunt, I find her distasteful and Judgemental. She came at me sideways for months for buying weed with unemployment funds that I'd paid into for 20 years. I've gone way deeper on every conceivable front regarding many drugs, and have never been to rehab or a psych ward.

All that being said, those of you that have known me for over a decade know damned well how finite my empathy is. If I'm not a psychopath, I'm definitely borderline in that regard.

I've literally *been the "Jen"* in the relationship as I described in great detail earlier in this topic. I'm entirely too wrapped up in myself to deal with the mewling of a child, and the laughter of children cuts through me like a razorblade.

Some people just don't want or cannot tolerate raising a child. If there is any point myself and Jen can agree on it is that for whatever reason. In my case, it is because I have zero patience and can't guarantee I wouldn't backhand my own child thru a wall at some point. I made peace with that realization over 20 years ago.

I won't speculate as to Jen's reasons, frankly I don't care. But I do understand an overarching desire to not raise a child.

The fact that many of you attack her for it because you're like fucking sharks in chummed water makes me angry. Call it whatever you like, but if you want to come at her sideways for it, by all means come at me too.

It's not a white Knight thing. Everyone has their reasons. I still love the girl that wanted kids with me, but we're never going to be compatible in that regard and that's just how the bones were going to fall.

Shit happens. The rock keeps spinning. We move onward. Not all women are obligated to make babies any more than all men are obligated to spread their seed.

Any more lip out of you fuckers and I'm taking my belt off. Come at me the way you've come at her.

I dare you.

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