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Topic	I'm tired of people telling me I'll change my mind on having kids
Harpie 06/03/20 2:28:56 AM #55:	teepan95 posted... Everyone I've mentioned it to irl has reacted negatively. They don't even trust that I'll change my mind by myself, they just keep trying to force me to do so The only ones who understand are my parents lol Its really strange why people care so deeply about it, considering theyll be the first ones to say that bad parents should have never had kids in the first place. If you dont want kids, youll end up being resentful of a life without them.. and then be a bad parent Damn teep can I have your parents too The_Creep_2020 posted... I felt the same way, once. I was utterly resolute. I loathed and abhorred the thought of having children. Then, after a great deal of work on myself and after becoming older, I realised that somewhere along the way, my attitudes towards children had changed. That is not to say that you shall change your mind, but do not leave yourself closed to the possibility. I dont hate children, though. And I feel like I have a different perspective considering I raised my siblings for most of my life. I have a good idea as to what it takes, and its not something I want. I would love to volunteer to be a mentor for disadvantaged children though. I never had that growing up, and I think that it would give me the purpose I need --- no <cite>Harpie posted [p:940108742] in I'm tired ... [t:78738218]...</cite> <quote>teepan95 posted... </cite> <quote>Everyone I've mentioned it to irl has reacted negatively. They don't even trust that I'll change my mind by myself, they just keep trying to force me to do so The only ones who understand are my parents lol</quote>Its really strange why people care so deeply about it, considering theyll be the first ones to say that bad parents should have never had kids in the first place. If you dont want kids, youll end up being resentful of a life without them.. and then be a bad parent Damn teep can I have your parents too The_Creep_2020 posted... </cite> <quote>I felt the same way, once. I was utterly resolute. I loathed and abhorred the thought of having children. Then, after a great deal of work on myself and after becoming older, I realised that somewhere along the way, my attitudes towards children had changed. That is not to say that you shall change your mind, but do not leave yourself closed to the possibility.</quote>I dont hate children, though. And I feel like I have a different perspective considering I raised my siblings for most of my life. I have a good idea as to what it takes, and its not something I want. I would love to volunteer to be a mentor for disadvantaged children though. I never had that growing up, and I think that it would give me the purpose I need --- no</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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