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This is a girl that I had a non-committed relationship with for several years. Basically, I would hook up with her, and take her out and treat her really good, celebrating holidays with her and everything. When I would meet other girls, I would drop her, then pick up where we left off after those relationships ended.

The sex we had was amazing, and multiple times it got so passionate that I would tell her I loved her, but it was clearly just heat of the moment talk as I never repeated it outside of the bedroom. I dumped her shortly after she had a pregnancy scare, as she told me that she was on birth control but then wound up alarming me telling me she thinks she might be pregnant. To this day, I think that it was just a test. We still stayed on good terms afterwards, and we hooked up a few times after even, but kind of fell out of contact.

Well, fast forward to today, three years later, and she has come back. Only this time, she is ****ing mad at me. She tells me that I am the most disgusting, misogynistic and abusive man she has ever met. She forgets all about the good times, the gifts I used to shower her with, and tells me that I was "raping" her, even though we always had consensual sex. Brings up the rough sex, and says that I am a violent psychopath, even though I did NOTHING violent to her, and all of the things we did together were her preferences.

She tells me about her new boyfriend Billy, who treats her right, and that they are engaged now. She tells me he is the opposite of me, and she fell in love with him instantly.

I told her that this is all well and good and I am happy for her, she tells me that she is going to show up at my house and Billy is going to beat the crap out of me!!!

I ask why would I fight Billy, I'm glad there's someone taking good care of her now. She tells me that she's told him about all the times I "raped" her (WTF?!) and that he thinks that beating my ass is the right thing to do.

I tell her, I won't fight him.

She tells me that she knows my jogging routes, and she has already told him, and if he shows up, then it's out of her hands.

I tell her that if I have to defend myself, it is out of MY hands, but I still won't fight him. (I carry a can of mace with me.)

She tells me that if I hurt Billy, then she's going to the NEWS about us, and she's basically going to METOO me!!!!

I don't know what to do, she is essentially telling me that I have to get my ass kicked by this guy, or else she is going to ruin my reputation. Already, there is a group of girls that have blocked me on Facebook which we have mutual contact with.

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