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Topic	My father told me to have a happy life
3khc 02/26/20 2:32:53 PM #8:	IfGodCouldDie posted... I can't relate because my father bounced on my mom as soon as he found out she was pregnant. I also spent the majority of my childhood in foster care because my mom sucked at being a mom to me and my brother who she had with another deadbeat PoS. What I can say is fuck'em, are you happy with your life? The life you built without his janky ass? Because if you are you need to understand that you did it without him and he is the one missing out on having an awesome kid, you ain't missing out on having a shitty father, that's for damn sure! I figured I'm not much to be proud of, so thanks your words made me feel a little better about myself. But it sucks because that still means I have to accept he just doesn't care to be part of my life. cuttin_in_farm posted... Ill never understand why people think they have to have a relationship with family. We all had friends that are no longer friends. A father is no different to me. But I obviously dont know the specific context here. It's just something I want. Blue_Inigo posted... That's a fucked up story man. You really need to tell him how you feel about all this. Give it to him straight. Make him answer for his fuck ups When he first told me to have a happy life. I called him right away and gave him a piece of my mind. It was a weird moment because we never really talked before that and suddenly I was pouring my feelings out about how he's treating his son. Now this second time I don't bother to call, but I did send a message saying that I never forgot the first time he told me to have a happy life. Told him I forgave him that time because I thought he was angry about the separation. This time I asked him if he only contacted me because he needed something. So far no response. No longer surprised. --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:934908848] in My father ... [t:78433313]...</cite> <quote>IfGodCouldDie posted... </cite> <quote>I can't relate because my father bounced on my mom as soon as he found out she was pregnant. I also spent the majority of my childhood in foster care because my mom sucked at being a mom to me and my brother who she had with another deadbeat PoS. What I can say is fuck'em, are you happy with your life? The life you built without his janky ass? Because if you are you need to understand that you did it without him and he is the one missing out on having an awesome kid, you ain't missing out on having a shitty father, that's for damn sure!</quote>I figured I'm not much to be proud of, so thanks your words made me feel a little better about myself. But it sucks because that still means I have to accept he just doesn't care to be part of my life. cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite> <quote>Ill never understand why people think they have to have a relationship with family. We all had friends that are no longer friends. A father is no different to me. But I obviously dont know the specific context here.</quote>It's just something I want. Blue_Inigo posted... </cite> <quote>That's a fucked up story man. You really need to tell him how you feel about all this. Give it to him straight. Make him answer for his fuck ups</quote>When he first told me to have a happy life. I called him right away and gave him a piece of my mind. It was a weird moment because we never really talked before that and suddenly I was pouring my feelings out about how he's treating his son. Now this second time I don't bother to call, but I did send a message saying that I never forgot the first time he told me to have a happy life. Told him I forgave him that time because I thought he was angry about the separation. This time I asked him if he only contacted me because he needed something. So far no response. No longer surprised. --- ---- -----</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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