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Topic	Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date?
emblem boy 12/28/19 1:54:58 PM #71:	Strider102 posted... If it's just a one time thing, excluding something more intimate, in which case yes, then no. If they don't plan on seeing said person again then it's up to them. Long term, yes. If you can't be honest with me, lie, or avoid it entirely how do you expect it to go anywhere or last? It doesn't necessarily have to be right at the first conversation, but at least tell me before feelings start to develop. Trust and honesty are important, without either it's not going to last. Pretty much this. Like, I understand why some might want to delay the talk, but at the end of the day, they're purposely hiding it. Garioshi posted... Paragon21XX posted... Yeah, like that would ever go over well with a date: "Just to be sure, you weren't born with a penis?" I'm guessing 99 times out of 100 the date is going to be offended that someone would even considering asking her such a rude question and storm off and permanently block you from all forms of contact. So maybe it's not that big of a deal? I mean, this whole thing is obviously a hypothetical for the vast majority of people --- Pitter-patter, let's get at 'er <cite>emblem boy posted [p:932159996] in Should a t... [t:78287691]...</cite> <quote>Strider102 posted...</cite> <quote>If it's just a one time thing, excluding something more intimate, in which case yes, then no. If they don't plan on seeing said person again then it's up to them. Long term, yes. If you can't be honest with me, lie, or avoid it entirely how do you expect it to go anywhere or last? It doesn't necessarily have to be right at the first conversation, but at least tell me before feelings start to develop. Trust and honesty are important, without either it's not going to last. </quote> Pretty much this. Like, I understand why some might want to delay the talk, but at the end of the day, they're purposely hiding it. Garioshi posted...</cite> <quote>Paragon21XX posted... </cite> <quote> Yeah, like that would ever go over well with a date: "Just to be sure, you weren't born with a penis?" I'm guessing 99 times out of 100 the date is going to be offended that someone would even considering asking her such a rude question and storm off and permanently block you from all forms of contact.</quote>So maybe it's not that big of a deal? </quote> I mean, this whole thing is obviously a hypothetical for the vast majority of people --- Pitter-patter, let's get at 'er</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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