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LinkPizza posted...

A hook-up at a bar any more special than a app/site. Its not special at all, tbqh... It the same level or meaningless to find a random drunk girl at the bar. Now youre just making shit up...

And many people can. As it happens all the time to non-virgins... Idk why you think its the hardest thing ever to meet someone at a bar for sex. Or why doing that would mean anything... All Im trying to do is help. But you obviously dont want help. Just be youre friends puppet if thats what you want to do and have sex with who he tells you to. Thats what it sounds like you want to do...

I appreciate the help, I'm not dismissing your help, I'm discussing the help with you. I'm trying to help you help me. I want my virginity loss to be meaningful, and you wanna help me make it meaningful, but first I have to lay out what "meaning" means to me.

Bar/club hookups mean a whole lot more to me than Tinder, because they're much harder. I've been to bars & clubs. Not only have I never hooked up at one despite trying, but I don't really see other people hooking up at bars/clubs. Whenever I go to a bar or a club, it's people coming in with groups of friends, and all they do is hang out with those groups of friends. There's no mingling, there's no depraved bathroom sex, none of that fun stuff. So to pull that off, to pull of this rare thing, would be really cool.

You say bar/club hookups are easy and common, but I've never seen one. Not to say they don't happen, but they must be leagues rarer than Tinder hookups. And if nothing else, they're rarer for me. And to do the hard/rare thing means more.