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wolfy42 posted...

If you have not had sex till this point, there is probably a reason, is it something you really want to do? Perhaps your more like me and enjoy sex, but only with a person you have an emotional attachment to, it's about the fun and joy you can share with another person, not just the physical act.

If that is the case, don't just go out and have sex, yeah it's a big part of many guys lives in their 20's and 30's, but your heading towards 50 fast man, no real point starting to date at this point if it hasn't been a big part of your life so far.

Many couples post 50 don't have sex at all, and it's certainly not wrong to want to be in a relationship, but not really be interested in sex either.

If it's something your missing or always wanted to try, then yeah, go out there and have some fun (But be safe, kinda sad ifyou got an STD at 46 after having no sex for your whole life).

Everyone is different but it's certainly been at least 5 years since I have had any "sexy" dreams and I was younger than you at that point. My motivation to possibly date is for company, not booty time at this point. So yeah, just starting to get out there at 46.....it would certainly be a different experience then most have for their first time.

It's definitely something I want to do. In fact, you're right about how older people tend to have less sex. That was probably what drove my last relationship apart. We were both about the same age. And being as old as we are, we just didn't do any of the fun hand-holdy stuff young couples do. And I probably resented the relationship for that. Resented this worthless old age, where there's nothing but waiting for death. I need to do something fun, like have sex with someone from a bar or club.