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TopicIn dating terms, when should a transgender person reveal that
Eviora
12/17/19 12:18:58 PM
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You're assuming all cisgender men share your aversion. That isn't the case. Sooorry, but you can't weasel your way out of responsibility just by crying "Bad faith!" over and over.

If anything at all is a dealbreaker for a relationship with you, it's on you to be clear about that. For example, I'm an atheist and wouldn't want to date someone who thinks I deserve to burn forever just because I don't believe in god, so it would be on me to make sure I'm not dating someone who believes that. Know what? I don't wanna date anyone who sucks at math, either. Does that mean everyone who has failed a math course should be required to tell every potential romantic interest on sight? Of course not!

If we had to list all the possible turn-off for all our possible partners, we'd just be spouting autobiographies at each other all the time. That's silly. You are the one responsible for making sure you vet your partners for traits you deem undesirable. You already understand that in most cases, but you're trying to special plead against transgender people because they're the minority. That's naked bigotry. Own your prejudices.

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