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TopicIn dating terms, when should a transgender person reveal that
Anteaterking
12/15/19 12:39:08 PM
#95:


The Trent posted...
Having preferences and a selective process in your sexual relationships
= being insecure with your sexuality

If your selective process is "hope that people who don't meet your preferences select themselves out", you don't have a selective process.

At this point in my life, I'm not willing to date someone who has kids. That doesn't mean that anyone has an obligation to tell me they have kids. The degree to which it's a deal breaker for me makes it my responsibility to get that information.

And if I'm going to sleep with someone and then I find out they have kids, it just means that I don't sleep with them and I don't continue the relationship. If I've stated that I wouldn't date someone with kids and they lied to me, that's a different story.

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