LogFAQs > #931516001

I've been more or less in your shoes TC. The anxiety in your heart is destructive and it makes you feel terrible. You go to work and accomplish nothing because you are just thinking about the relationship. I don't have a solution for you unfortunately because the only thing that healed me was time. Eventually I guess you have to decide when stitching the tears isn't working and you have to move on. I know that is extremely painful to hear and I would only ever hope that you and your wife could find resolution, but I also don't want you to put your expectations into something that may be impossible. However, you were together for 12 years before being married so I have to believe there is something there for you guys to equilibriate on. There needs to be a dialogue though and it sounds like they doesn't want to give you that. Fight as hard as you can but don't lose your spirit in the battle. Keep your chin up and I hope you find peace.

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