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joe40001 posted...

Because, I've personally experienced both first-hand and second-hand using "woe is me" as a fishing expedition for reassurance of something that you want to hear but think you can get.

Let me put it another way: If it were 100% true you could get a happy, healthy, fulfilling relationship where you felt wanted. Would you want to know? Would this topic change?

I'm not saying you can. I'm saying I'm potentially getting vibes that some part of you might be fishing for reassurance if it's possible.

@joe40001

I hope I am answering this correctly, but If I felt the potentiality to have a happy, healthy, fulfilling relationship, and was having trouble obtaining, then I would ask for advice on how to obtain it. However this is not the case, and therefore that is not what I asked for.

Wow, actually reading your question made me realize that I have no idea what a happy, health, fulfilling relationship is and therefore its not surprising (to me at least) that I would not place my hopes in something that is unknown to me.

I don't think I would have any problem openly asking for comfort on this board in the same way I feel no problem stating my vulnerabilities. I hope that was clear enough.


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