Apparently it's taught to girls in sex ed that "blue balls" is this horrible painful experience that happens if we get a boner and don't ejaculate.
I remember in high school, girls I was talking to would hold it against me if they got mad at me and would be like damn, I guess you gotta take care of it yourself this time. To which I would just be like ok, I just gotta wait a minute and it'll go down...
They actually think that when you have a boner you need to orgasm for it to go down, and if you don't it's this terrible pain.
Who came up with this idea? Who's gonna tell them we get boners all the time and it doesn't really mean anything?