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ParanoidObsessive posted...

I don't let strangers (or even mild acquaintances) into my house unless I absolutely have to (like a plumber, electrician, etc). If I'm letting you in for anything other than business, there is already a tacit level of trust and expectation on your part to not be an asshole. I can probably count on two hands the number of people I've invited into my house who weren't family. I can count on one hand the number I've invited in who ARE family.

Which is why, if you betray that trust, I'm more likely to have a much stronger negative response. You've basically proved that I can't trust you.

Thanks for the replies. For you it sounds like you dont trust or like people there in general.

wwinterj25 posted...

zebatov posted...

You probably wouldnt kick your family out but the person you invited into your house probably wouldnt be allowed back.

Depends the family member. If it's close family I believe it would be worse as they should know better but I'd probably allow them back at some point as family comes before anyone. This doesn't mean I'll forget though. Some random stranger I'll kick out with no problem but then they are out of my life so it doesn't hurt as much and I'll move on easy enough.

This is what I was expecting from most people.
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