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| Topic | If you're an average-looking guy is there even a point in joining Tinder now? |
| SpeedDemon20 10/11/19 12:04:16 PM #27: | I use Hinge. I feel like it's a lot better than the other apps (the prompts really set it apart). It took about 5 months, but I think I found someone (we see each other a lot now and really, our relationship just needs to be verbally confirmed). :B It's mostly a numbers game. Most of the likes you send you will never hear from (a consequences of how dating apps are designed). Because women get A LOT of likes and the newest likes go to the top of the pile, your like will very easily get buried (some people try to metagame the system by sending likes at specific hours; I don't know if that really works). When you do get a match, sometimes the other person isn't really putting in any effort, like they've been defeated by the dating game and are just going through the motions. I have a pretty low number of likes for my time on it (20-ish), only had like 3 really good matches, and only went on dates with 2 matches. But the numbers don't matter too much; you're really only looking for the one. It can be discouraging at times, but it's fine to take a break and then put your best effort in again when you're ready. :D I think my best advice would be to work on yourself. Do things so you have stories and experiences to share. --- http://orig14.deviantart.net/59f8/f/2009/047/4/9/rylai_crestfall_by_eyue.jpg Crystal Maiden... gal could break your heart in a thousand pieces. -Rucks ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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