We have come a long way from our primal ancestors on the African Savannah. Just as the majority of us have evolved to value monogamy, bodily autonomy, and empathy, so too can we teach ourselves to overcome even our most hard-wired sexual impulses.
Literally what I said earlier in the topic. Yeah, a long time ago there was a biological benefit to being polygamous. That biological benefit doesn't really exist in our society anymore.
Your second link is more about libido versus mate choice. On the whole men have more direct libido. Just because you have a stronger libido doesn't mean that you are biologically wired to "cheat". It means you more likely want to have more sex on average than women do.
Your last link is from 1979, and again states, Just because we have various instinctive propensities doesnt mean we have to act on all of them. Our system of ethics should, and does, exert controls on how we behave.
And your refutations are straw men.
I never said there was a biological "benefit" to anything. Only that we're as men, hard-wired to want to bang multiple women. I'm not talking about societal "values" I'm talking about humans biology.
I also never once spoke about ethics or whether or not they should be acted on.