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Aloner posted...

MrNintendo1213 posted...

Hey what about guys who admit it is entirely their fault and are just too scared to try at all.

But it's not men's fault that we're the gender expected to try.

Darmik posted...

None of here care about giving you advice because we know you'll do nothing. It's not worth the effort.

What I care about is that you're posting wrong shit to make yourself feel better.

The problem isn't other women. It's you.

This is false according to studies. Men are less likely to get laid than women in the modern era. Can't blame the problem on the individual when there's a larger social dynamic at play.

Yeah it sucks that toxic masculinity means that putting yourself out there is expected of guys. But some girls did actually try to talk to me a handful of times. Like 4 whole times. I hate to be shallow, but one was this super creepy fat girl in my Japanese class in high school who liked me. I didn't like her personality either so I'm not only being shallow about not wanting to talk to her. Also I was just scared in general like I always am. I was sitting in the hall with my friend and his girlfriend at lunch, which was right before Japanese class when she walked up to me, standing over me trying to talk to me. I can't even remember what she said but it was obvious she really liked me, but I literally just got wide eyed and didn't say anything to her until she left. My friends girlfriend said I looked terrified after she left, and I told her I was. I did feel bad about being kinda mean to her. Well not actively mean but mean in my head.

And then I went to a kickback in my senior year with my stoner friend, and there was a girl who I think was either a sophomore or a freshman who was actively trying to talk to me in a nice way, and it seemed like she wanted to do stuff. She was actually pretty attractive with a nice ass, and I said a couple sentences to her, but I couldn't really carry the conversation on. She walked into a bedroom, and my friend told me I definitely should follow her because she "will totally suck your dick." I'm pretty sure she would have, but I couldn't move. I sat on the couch and didn't move a muscle or talk until I left.

And at the end of the year, this girl asked to sign each others yearbooks, and it seemed like she liked me, she was being kinda awkward, but she was really cute and kind of looked like a skater girl type. Once in that same class we were in earlier that year we ended up paired together for an assignment in class, and I ended up actually talking to her like a normal person and found out she was new to the school that year and stuff. I assumed she was just being nice the first time when we worked together, but then when she asked about my year book it started to click she liked me. But since the entire time I went to that school for 4 years I was so used to just being a weird nerd who could barely talk to people and just slept through most of my classes I internally assumed she couldn't actually like me. I realized later she was new, and only saw me in that class mostly.

And that class was one of the few classes I had with one of my best friends, the same stoner from the other story. We sat together in the back at a big ass table separate from the other ones and would make jokes and lean back in our chairs like cool kids, so she probably actually thought I was relatively cool because of that. Anyway when she asked me, I just didn't say anything and froze up, like always. So she just says, "ohh yah I guess we dont really know eachother that well, so yah." And then walked away. I had the wide eyes that probably looked like I was telling her to go away when it just meant I'm scared because she was so cute.
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