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Probably not the best place to ask... But I really need outside perspective. Forgive the wall of text.

So I met a girl in November and we've since been in a long-ish distance (about 1 hour drive) poly relationship. At first I was ok with this, though never really comfortable with hearing about other guys she's with. I love this woman, and she loves me, but she's adamant she wants to remain poly, so this is as far as it goes in a sense.

Met another girl earlier this year where I live. Lots in common, she's close to me, emotionally available. She knew about the other woman, and seemingly was ok, but she's wanted more and is feeling like second place (kind of a shoe is now on the other foot scenario). I love newer girl, too. But its just not quite the same spark? Tough to explain.

Lately I've been in a bad way emotionally. Older girl has been distant, some talk but no action. I feel marginalized. Meanwhile she tells me about two recent guys in her town she dated that basically played her for sex and have since bailed on her. When I needed her to hear me about some personal shit over the weekend I find out today she was distant cause she was with another guy getting fucked. Still... Not to say I'm not getting mine here from newer girl regularly. I just am super into older girl and she's essentially said this is all I can give you.

Newer girl hasn't made any ultimatums or anything but she's obviously uncomfortable with older girl. I think I gotta break it off with older girl, just bite the bullet, even though I do feel stronger for her. So. What does CE think?