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| adjl 07/25/19 10:37:04 AM #25: | ParanoidObsessive posted... My usual rule of thumb is, if you have to ask, the answer is yes. I take it a step further and say that anything your partner isn't okay with is cheating. If you aren't sure, ask them (not anyone else, because nobody else's feelings or opinions matter), and apologize if you accidentally cross a boundary you didn't realize was there (an apology that should include taking the time to figure out those boundaries and avoid future issues). At any time, you're justified in ending the relationship if you feel those boundaries are too restrictive (i.e. "it's cheating to go to the beach because you'll see other people in swimsuits"), and they're justified in ending the relationship if you violate a boundary that you reasonable should have known about (i.e. sleeping with somebody else while married). In short, yes, you cheated. You cheaty cheatface. Grow a pair and stop trying to figure out some interpretation of events where you somehow didn't. If you wanted out of the marriage, that's what divorce is for. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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