I think infidelity is bad, but I don't understand the idea that the person you raised for X years is somehow a waste to you because they don't share your DNA is really dumb.
Well if this ain't shitpost of the year I don't know what is. I've seen some fucking garbage here over the years, but damn. This post right here.
So if you raised and loved a kid for ten years only to find out hes not really your kid, youd abandon them and never look back?
Without a second thought.
Well, maybe that's a little harsh to say it like that, but I absolutely don't think I could stand to be a part of their life anymore.
That's a pretty shitty thing to do
Funny you call that shitty, but have no comment on the people who cheat on their spouse and lie to their spouse and their child(ren).
I'd say that's more shitty, like your post.
Yes, the wife is a lying piece of crap. The child however is innocent. Treating them like some sort of stranger isnt fair to them at best and is monstrously cruel at worst. They didn't ask to be born like they were, they had no choice in their parentage. Running out on them, the only father they ever knew, is just as shitty as the cheating wife. Maybe more so.
And whose fault is it that this situation is even happening? I'm sorry but after knowing the truth it would be hard to look at my child the same way ever again and not be reminded of what happened and you cant blame anyone for feeling that way. This could have all been avoided if someone wasnt a manipulative lying cheat.
If it was me I'd probably stay for the child. But I'd definitely pull them aside and tell her the truth, and that I'm divorcing their whore of a mother, but also make sure they know it's not the child's fault and I'll still try to love them the same ---
