But then nobody should be happy. If she hasn't finished, I've done a piss poor job. If I can't finish, same to her. If people communicate, everybody finishes, however there are days that just don't work out. But if it's a consistent issue, something is wrong. Gotta work together
again, this is from my experience: that is not how they tend to view the situation.
the view i came across a lot was "your orgasm is your responsibility. my orgasm is also your responsibility, but i'll take care of it if you don't."
which led to sex being on the girl's terms, ending when she climaxed and not really being about me.
not a lot you can do about that with dialogue. best just to move on.
I think youve just been sleeping with shitty people. Ive been with a lot of girls and none of them ever acted like this. I could probably break them down into two general groups:
1. Rarely ever get off for any variety of reason. Never, at least outwardly, express disappointment or anger.
2. Get off easily. Understand that were both ultimately responsible for our own orgasms, though were working to help each other out.
Im currently in the best sexual relationship Ive ever had. So is she. I think some people are just better at it than others, and I just got lucky and met someone I was in perfect sync with.
The above is my experience too. In fact the big Darkman said about girls climaxing and then ending sex is very bizarre and totally opposite of anything I've ever experienced. If I climax first I'm pretty much done but never has she climaxed first and ended it.
As for the question in the op, I don't like it when girls ride but they bounce. That shit is scary. ---
You're such a boring characterless entity. Try getting laid once in a while and maybe you'll have friends and find out what a "joke" is. - derrate