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powerman1426 posted...

But then nobody should be happy. If she hasn't finished, I've done a piss poor job. If I can't finish, same to her. If people communicate, everybody finishes, however there are days that just don't work out.
But if it's a consistent issue, something is wrong. Gotta work together

again, this is from my experience: that is not how they tend to view the situation.

the view i came across a lot was "your orgasm is your responsibility. my orgasm is also your responsibility, but i'll take care of it if you don't."

which led to sex being on the girl's terms, ending when she climaxed and not really being about me.

not a lot you can do about that with dialogue. best just to move on.
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