LogFAQs > #914130746

So I am pretty confident one of my co-workers is pretty into me. We get along great at work, make each other laugh, help each other out, she is a couple years older with a daughter, but she is still really cute.

Lately she has been acting a bit weird and bringing up some odd conversations.

First she starts commenting on how a new coworker hits on women and asks why I don't do stuff like that, then a little while later she asks what I would do if someone made comments on my looks at work, next she asks me about how I would react to someone grabbing my butt. After that she tells my best friend in a text that my ass looks delicious. She apologized to me repeatedly for it and I'm not sure what she is apologizing for at this point since I haven't seen the message yet. When she finds out my friend didn't tell me about the message she goes out of her way to show me the text. I laughed it off, but then today she texts me and wants to make sure I wasn't offended by it because she wasn't joking.

So far I have been kind of playing dumb, but I don't want a relationship right now. I have a lot in my life I am trying to sort out and I don't think our interests are very compatible. I want to turn her down as gently as I can because she is a great person, but I don't want to be like "hey I think you like me and that's cool but I'm not interested" because that sounds terrible.

When we talked about if I was dating anyone I thought I made it clear that I wasn't looking for anything, but I don't know how much longer I can just play dumb.
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