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Romulox28 posted...

What Jedi incel mind tricks did u employ to acquire your HB8 sweetie

There are a few basic tricks you can pull on a proper lady that will convince them you have value and they want your value.

1) Give them space - When you give them space, it makes them believe you have a life, that you don't need them, it gives them the ability to sit back and think about you and start missing you. Feeling anxious you haven't talked in a while? Well, she may be feeling it, but she's probably not. Even more likely there's nothing to feel anxious about. Deal with those feelings internally, she doesn't need to know about them.

2) Cook them a dinner - The first dinner I ever tried to cook was for her for our first valentines day, made a simple butter/garlic shrimp on rice with steamed broccoli. It sounds like a lot and at the time it really felt like a lot. Not only did this score mega brownie points in a variety of ways, it started my path on what would become one of my favorite and most fulfilling hobbies. Nowadays making that dinner just feels like another weekday night.

3) Listen, but even moreso, do things that signify you do listen - This one is tough, but it's really good. Listen to what she likes, what she doesn't like. Every once in a while do a nice surprise related to something she said offhand a few weeks or a month ago. Write them down if you have trouble remembering. This kind of attention to detail will absolutely woo her.

4) You are not a jackhammer in the bed and that's not what she wants - Start slow and work your way up to jackhammer mode. Most ladies in my experience do love it rough, but you gotta preheat that oven man.

These are some key points off the top of my head. I'm sure I'll think of more and add to the list.