LogFAQs > #912513378

any moment you spend interacting with this person is contributing negatively to your life, so you need to stop doing it without exception
you cant place yourself second to their own feelings or convince yourself that the effort spent may pay off eventually because the trauma youre definitively going through now will not ever be fully mended regardless
it may feel selfish, but when you place your focus on improving your own happiness first then it will improve all of your relationships in time
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And in an infinite regress, tell me, why is the pain of birth lighter borne than the pain of death?