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Darmik posted...

renasunflash posted...

I always feel really awkward about congratulating someone for being pregnant because I dont see having kids as a good thing but apparently most of society does, so I have to find a way to fake happiness for someone whos in a situation that I would find devastating. Its weird ...

You really find it hard putting yourself in their shoes? Raising a family is a goal for many, many people.

I really do tbh. I understand that people have a lot to say about the joys of raising children but I literally cant imagine feeling the way they say they do. Like Ill picture myself having a child and I either feel nothing or I feel revulsion, depending on part of child raising Im imagining.

I dont hate kids but I dont want any and since Ive never felt even a small desire to have children, its definitely hard for me to accept that 99.9% of people seem to really, really want a child and its an actual goal.