We both kind of did. He paid for some (with his line of credit), I paid for some and my family gave $10k.
I ended up stuck with $14k in debt though because all the deposits were in my name and on my card. And he was a deadbeat with no job and a secret $100k debt he hid from me
The funniest memory I have is my best friend answering all the calls from our vendors. She would reply in the most casual tone Im sorry but there will be no wedding. Why? Because the groom is an asshole, thats why
The bakery was pissed let me tell you. They made a 4 layer cake for 150 people for nothing. The owner almost yelled at me but when he heard my voice, he laid off
Oh yeah and I also received $10k in gifts from family who couldnt make it. I gave it back to them though
for nothing?
I would have frozen that cake and eaten the whole thing myself if my wedding got canceled
I know. Looking back, we should have just brought it home. My mom had a bbq in our yard with like 50 of our guests the day we were supposed to have the wedding. We could have used it lol. But I didnt even want to see it.