LogFAQs > #903648001

I'm personally really happy when my husband and I get treated like one entity... Because that's how I feel myself sometimes. I even warn people that anything interesting said to me will be repeated to my husband unless I specifically promise secrecy. Heh.

My take on this is close to Zang's. You have to be selfish sometimes or you lose yourself to other people.

I do think it was overly... dramatic though. I don't think it was necessary to tell those acquaintances all your deep feelings about not being a priority. I don't think it was good to make plans without at least talking to your husband first. I also really don't get the idea that it's painful somehow to hang out with casual acquaintances. But overall that's stuff that can just be personal preference and isn't necessarily right or wrong. So long as your relationship is okay and you both have fun, whatever to anyone else.
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