It does not matter why she cheated on him, the fact is instead of separation, talking to him, or divorcing him she choose to be a fucking whore, the fact she cheated means she gave no fucks at all about her relationship or marriage. Unless he was physically harming her or mentally abusive he is not responsible for her lack of control or poor choices. Do not try turning this around and acting like "it's his fault for her cheating, he did not value her enough, she did not get enough attention". She is an ADULT not a child, she had many choices she could make that were not being a cheating whore.
Do not act like this woman who wronged him is the victim, that kind of white knighting shit is straight up bull fucking shit. Nothing forced her to cheat, nothing forced her to be part of what sounds like a gang bang or had a train run on her.
Above all there is ZERO reason he should forgive her, the fact she thinks he should apologize for what he said(probably insulting her for her being a cheating whore) shows how she does NOT regret what she did and worst of all on his fucking BIRTHDAY.
This man needs to divorce her ass and make she his lawyer uses adultery and fucking treason as why she should not get half.
Whoa bro. She was just pursuing her biological desires, of course shes the victim here when her husband is so hell bent on not allowing her to do something that would make her feel good, what kind of loving husband does that? A loving husband is happy with his wife doing what she wants because that makes her happy, if that means getting railed by multiple guys than so be it, such is love. ---
I don't know my gimmick "Does that sound reasonable to you?"