Well the same people who push the social construction theory also talk about toxic masculinity usually which has never made any remote amount of sense to me. Good on you for not buying that, but that was what the point I was trying to express was about mostly.
Ok fair enough. The fact of the matter is there definitive differences between the average female and the average male, but the belief that you have to act a specific way to be a "real" anything is absurd. Different people are different, and we we all just live and let live(within reason) and helped each other out when we could we all be much happier people.