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Topic	I am dangerously close to cheating on my GF and I don't know what to do.
GodSlayer15 04/28/18 8:36:27 PM #73:	Pitlord_Special posted... So you started from a clean slate with a woman wet and willing and a year later shes a wreck who finds sex to be an intensely traumatic experience. Sounds like you completely mismanaged her sexual growth and at least owe her the effort of trying to work past it instead of kicking her to the curb and blaming her for it I didn't mismanage anything. I flat out denied her sex for the first few weeks of our relationship because I knew she didn't want to do it. I told her at the time she needs to make that decision with a clear head and not while we're in the middle of making out and things. She came to me and said it is what she wanted and we talked about it before following through with it. Not once in our entire year relationship have I ever pressured her for sex or even initiated sex with her. Literally every time we had sex, she started it. I'm not kicking her to the curb or blaming her for anything either. lincoln002 posted... Well relationships require sacrifices and right now you need to sacrifice your sex life for your partners mental health. You completely ignored the advice I gave you about couples counseling. You've got a great girl and real opportunity at a successful relationship, but it seems you don't understand how a relationship works so it's not a bad idea to get some help so both of you can learn to love each other better. I know and I've made sacrifices and continue to do so. I ignored it because I don't need couples counseling, our relationship is perfectly fine. IfGodCouldDie posted... So if that's the case for you, it's highly unlikely that cheating would be anything but "just physical." I know myself though. I've banged random chicks multiple times and couldn't give 2 **s about them afterwards. I care about my girlfriend and know that's who I love, sex with someone else would just be sex. Ruvan22 posted... How old are you two? I'm 26, she's 24. Sariana21 posted... Didn't read all the responses. She should talk to her doctor about other options for birth control. That should be the first step. I don't see what that is going to accomplish. If she gets her sex drive back, I know how she really feels about doing it now that I don't know if I can just have sex with her because I want it. Anyways, thanks for all the responses guys. To be honest I was never really seriously even considering cheating on her at all, just wanted to vent and get different opinions. I agree with what a lot of you have said, if it comes to that point I will end things first. I'm not a cheater bros! --- "The future I want is the one that I create for myself.......even if it costs me my own soul. " <cite>GodSlayer15 posted [p:900481477] in I am dange... [t:76561038]...</cite> <quote><cite>Pitlord_Special posted...</cite> <quote>So you started from a clean slate with a woman wet and willing and a year later shes a wreck who finds sex to be an intensely traumatic experience. Sounds like you completely mismanaged her sexual growth and at least owe her the effort of trying to work past it instead of kicking her to the curb and blaming her for it</quote> I didn't mismanage anything. I flat out denied her sex for the first few weeks of our relationship because I knew she didn't want to do it. I told her at the time she needs to make that decision with a clear head and not while we're in the middle of making out and things. She came to me and said it is what she wanted and we talked about it before following through with it. Not once in our entire year relationship have I ever pressured her for sex or even initiated sex with her. Literally every time we had sex, she started it. I'm not kicking her to the curb or blaming her for anything either. <cite>lincoln002 posted...</cite> <quote> Well relationships require sacrifices and right now you need to sacrifice your sex life for your partners mental health. You completely ignored the advice I gave you about couples counseling. You've got a great girl and real opportunity at a successful relationship, but it seems you don't understand how a relationship works so it's not a bad idea to get some help so both of you can learn to love each other better.</quote> I know and I've made sacrifices and continue to do so. I ignored it because I don't need couples counseling, our relationship is perfectly fine. <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted...</cite> <quote>So if that's the case for you, it's highly unlikely that cheating would be anything but "just physical."</quote> I know myself though. I've banged random chicks multiple times and couldn't give 2 **s about them afterwards. I care about my girlfriend and know that's who I love, sex with someone else would just be sex. <cite>Ruvan22 posted...</cite> <quote>How old are you two?</quote> I'm 26, she's 24. <cite>Sariana21 posted...</cite> <quote>Didn't read all the responses. She should talk to her doctor about other options for birth control. That should be the first step. </quote> I don't see what that is going to accomplish. If she gets her sex drive back, I know how she really feels about doing it now that I don't know if I can just have sex with her because I want it. Anyways, thanks for all the responses guys. To be honest I was never really seriously even considering cheating on her at all, just wanted to vent and get different opinions. I agree with what a lot of you have said, if it comes to that point I will end things first. I'm not a cheater bros! --- "The future I want is the one that I create for myself.......even if it costs me my own soul. " </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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