Nobody wants men to be like that, feminists don't either and men who are like that are utterly despised by women.
I mean, I'm not really one for board shorts, but I'm discovering that Toms are comfy, brunch is worth getting up for, classic lit is interesting, and acknowledging my emotions isn't a bad thing.
Toxic masculinity is the insistence that these things are inherently bad and "wrong" for a man to be, because they are typically "feminine".
And it's not even women that want men to be a certain way. It's other men. He's basically denying himself all of this because of a box some other dude created for him.
To all those who think all women want stoic lumberjacks who never shave and always leave the toilet seat up, David Bowie. Enough said.
You know who fits into those categories? Guys like this...
