lol @ straight guys pretending a gay dude saying "Hey cutie" is horrid sexual harassment.
Kinda sounds like you aren't so sure of your heterosexuality as it is, if something that benign is enough to put you on panic mode.
Seems like yall cant read at all today. If a guy tells me hey cutie I would definitely give him a response that Im not interested. But if he keeps going after telling him I aint gay then thats harassment.
I wouldnt even like it if a girl came up to me and her first words were hey cutie I would be uncomfortable. Is that how yall hit on people? My goodness lol
Actually, I've seen lots of people use that line. I personally don't, but do find it a little odd that it would make you uncomfortable if anyone used it. But to each their own.
robellr13 posted...
I never said I would fight him if he just flirted. I would only fight him if he kept harassing me. Theres a difference. Harassing = hitting on me after not being interested, especially touching. Me fighting a guy because of that would be generous. Believe me. Some of the people i know, would probably kill them lol
One thing youre not finna do is to debate me on harassment. Seeing loved ones being harassed in front of me has left its mark. No means no. Get the fuck over it.
Generous? Not at all. The number of people who would kill them in a bar because they kept hitting on them is pretty low. The number of fights are probably higher, so not really generous. Also, even though that number is higher, it's probably not as high as people think. Most people probably would tell them they're or interest and either leave or forcefully tell them to stop. And I know this may come as a surprise, but most would stop.
I like talking to you. You make good conversation.
But honestly, the hey cutie line only works when its like after club hours or while under the influence. If its at a social setting at like 7 pm, a woman I dont know comes up to me saying hi cutie. I wont be turned on or anything. I would be uncomfortable because its an awkward greeting gesture to me. Now if she slips it in after having a brief convo , then it will be fine.
And Im only saying the killing thing is because I have few friends that are felons that wouldnt put up with that. Its wrong but thats how it goes down here. My other friends will fight you or ignore you. Im not any of those unless you physically touch me or keep bothering me. Like I said, Im high 95 percent of the time. ---
