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I think I got lucky. I have never been more in love with my wife than now, and it just keeps getting better. It is constant work, but its always a two sided process.

I try to lead by example if I ask my wife to work on something...like she spends too much on starbucks every day.

So I looked at what I spend too much on (food), and told her I'm budgeting $30 a week total for food. I downloaded an app to show her I'm serious about it. Now she is working on it as well because neither of us wants to fail the other.

But its constant...you have to always work at it. And the relationship gets much much deeper than I could have imagined which is nice.

EDIT: But I don't care at all if others want to get married...though I think kids fare better if the parents are married first (statistically I think all parties involved do better).