As long as the premise you've established here is true- i.e. there is a way to fix the situation that doesn't require him to ditch the parties, he knows it's very important to you and he had already agreed to compromise for once and go with you....yeah he's wrong.
From what you've already mentioned about this guy in the past, he's become lazy, angry and/or depressed. So this isn't really just about this very specific situation, there's a core problem at play here. Either way, the solution isn't on a wack-ass message board.
Jesus christ, you're adults. Hash it out, go to counseling or some shit and if you're really at the point where there's irreconcilable differences despite your best efforts to fix it, walk away while you still can with minimal fallout(no kids).
Yeah I plan on us going to counseling. And message board helps because he seriously makes me feel like Im the crazy one sometimes.
I know Ive posted some negative things but its not like its all bad all the time. Hes just a homebody and a bit antisocial. Ok very antisocial lol. His mom even tells me all the time how she happy she is he found me because she always worried about him for that reason. Its not like he calls me name or treats me like shit 24/7. Hell often go out his way to do nice things for me.
I feel your pain a bit. I am a very social person and my wife is the complete opposite.
How do you deal??
What makes it hard for me is that I moved to be with him and left my friends and family behind.
Well... my closest friend lives 5 mins from me, and my other closest friend is buying a house 5 mins away as well. So, when I do feel the need to go out, I go out with them. She has 0 interest in going out at night. We do everything else together basically, but when I need a night out its with the guys and not her.
That said, she will suck it up and go for special occasions. Like tomorrow night we are going out for a surprise 30th bday for my close friend and she is coming. But she will try to leave as early as possible, lol. ---
