Tell me how your suffering is at all comparable to somebody else's when the difference in privilege is astoundingly wide?
How does your suffering compare to mine?
Also, comparing suffering is stupid and pointless. It doesn't achieve anything in the end. It is just yet another thing you do that puts more hate in the world.
gunplagirl posted...
For that matter, expecting me as a victim to perform emotional labor for my oppressors and help them improve is bad praxis. Put the onus on the oppressors, not the victims.
You don't need to, if you don't want to. But hating them back and yelling at them won't get them to change. All it will do is validate their feelings and make them feel like the ones being oppressed.
So you opt ignore that there's intersectional disparities, then?
And as for the second part? I can say I'm a woman from here till the cows come home and they'd still never actually give it a fair chance. Debate or being friendly won't change their minds. know what actually validates their opinions? Living in an echo chamber and hearing stuff like "this is why trump won" in regards to trans people doing anything. Like existing or wanting to use the proper bathroom. ---