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| midgar 09/28/17 2:38:33 PM #52: | thanosibe posted... We'll be married 18 years in 7 days. I'd like to think I would give her a chance to explain herself. But it would be a big effort to. I would forgive and forget most anything other mistake she could make without much thought. But infidelity would be a hard for me. 11 years in October, here. I'm the same. I know I could forgive just about anything, but we've long since established that's my cut off point, though. We already know being faithful is a mutual expectation in our relationship. It'd be a point if no return for me going forward, trust wise. So no, that'd be a wrap. There'd be nothing TO explain. These things don't happen on accident, and even if it were the first time, it doesn't just happen out of the blue. Especially if it were in our bed, in our home. Dude would have 60 seconds to respectfully get the fuck out my house, though. Unless he wants to die with his dick out. I'd like to think I would keep my calm, as I'm not usually temperamental at all, so I guess it depends on the reaction by the other party and their respect for the weight of the situation. Even if I lost my shit, I know I could never bring myself to harm her physically. So, can she explain? No. She can pack her shit. --- Now playing: BF1, XCOM2, Rocket League, Scrap Mechanic. GT/PSN/Steam: Novidian ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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