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| Topic | Never had a gf and I'm in my 30s |
| TeamSilent4Life 11/01/23 1:22:57 PM #40: | I admit I don't help myself, it's not that I don't want help, it's just that I don't were to begin. Any efforts I do make to be friendly isn't reciprocated at work, although I understand that environment is not intended to make friends. I tried meetup groups years ago, I attended a group each week which involved quiz nights in a cafe shop and even nights out on the piss.
The night out was fun but as friendly as these people were, they had their own little click as they was a lot older in their 50s-70s. I just don't fit in anywhere because I'm highly introverted although I do have a fun side if I'm comfortable with someone like that ex fling I mentioned. Some people have asked me if I have Asperger's as I have a lot of similar traits. I was tested a long time ago and it was ruled out. I think it's more social anxiety and extreme shyness as I can communicate well with the right person and I have no sensory needs, I even support kids with SEN needs in sensory based interventions. Tryin to keep these posts more concise as my last 2 were like a fuckin bible. --- In my restless dreams... ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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