Antiyonder posted... @KitKats
My argument is the other way around. You know why trans should be able to use the bathroom of choice, but this confusion is why I was hesitant to comment on the matter of some finding it awkward vs threatening.
Now the predatory concern (sexual harassment or rape), that's another matter. I feel the solutions to that is:
A. Not hesitating to inform kids of taking to for an answer. None of that "Boys will be boys" or any equivalent. And.....
B. Remind people that sexual predators aren't victims in their own right, but the ones in the wrong VS the victim for being too sexy. In short victim blaming is a predator enabler.
This won't necessarily stop such altogether but these are the real source of predatory behavior, plus the person feeling entitled.
The solution in the context of this conversation is a combination of robust legal protections and public policy for vulnerable and marginalized LGBT+ minorities, with increased awareness, inclusion, and public education in schools on LGBT+ people and our history. Remove the stigma surrounding us.