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If someone did that in an actual relationship, then you hold some responsibility of not calling out said behavior before getting into a relationship unless they only started exhibited those behaviors after it became official . If someone is constantly texting me and it annoys me: It's my job to let that person know and express my concerns . And if they keep doing so, I leave. And if they dont do it anymore, then things continue

It's all about communication and addressing certain behavior that may make your partner uncomfortable. A lot of situations arent exactly black and white and many things in relationships can be resolved through discussion and couples therapy. Furthermore, people can and do change. Thats part of growing up.

People do. It usually results in them leaving the clingy individual. It's not our job to play mother to a person who lacks the maturity to be able to handle a woman who doesn't revolve their entire life around the guy in question. You're talking about "behaving like an adult" and "speaking like one" to a hypothetical scenario that literally involves the hypothetical party behaving like a baby.

So basically, if someone does something you dont approve of, you automatically leave instead of talking through the issues and coming to a resolution?