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LiberalAgenda8 posted...

The concept of "clingy" is interpretation based and told from one side of the story, doesn't take into account the other side to bring out proper context as to whether he/she is.

I can text someone several times a day and that would be considered "Clingy" to someone not into me while to another person, they may not mind or feel it's the same.

Some relationships or "dating" start from one side being really into someone, or both people being really into each other to where they are constantly texting.

Clingy doesn't necessarily mean you are into someone and decided to try texting them to see if something more develops.

Gladius posted a better picture of what clingyness might look like. As a personal anecdote for illustrative purposes, I dealt with a super clingy girl who was interested in me at work and something she would do is whenever I was chatting with another girl at work she would always insert herself into the conversation and try to invite herself if me and the other girl were making plans.

kinetika_ posted...

I think the confusion here is that its not necessarily that you don't have an active social life with friends that make it a red flag, its the lack of a capacity to make friends.

Some of my friends I haven't seen in like 2 or 3 years because of life circumstances but they are still my friends and I am still capable of socializing and developing meaningful relationships.