LogFAQs > #976240968

All the people saying lack of friends is a red flag are wrong. Maybe if the person is awkward or strange, or trying to hook up with some overly extroverted person, but that has never ruined or hindered my chances with potential dates... in fact, that's probably what got me noticed to begin with. Ultimately, what my partners saw in me was dedication, commitment, drive, and toughness, and what got them to fall in love with me was how I expressed myself (this trait alone did it for me, usually), my honesty, my ambition, and my sincerity. I'm cordial and nice to others, but I've no interest in being friends with people as most people are traitorous and selfish, and will betray you no matter how much you've done for them.

Friendship and romance are two completely different relationships. "Friends" come and go for me, but romantic partners have always stuck with me for years. In the past 20 years, I've only been single once, for a few months, and have only had 3 relationships, my current going on 12 years now... and I have 0 friends, so no, it's not a "red flag" if someone doesn't have any friends.